Saturday, September 28, 2013

Consequences of Stress on Children's Development: Violence - Abuse

I am happy I was not abused by my intermediate family but I was physically abused by others as a child.  My intermediate family did whatever they could to protect me while I was in their care.  This is why as a new mother I will do what I can to protect my family at all times.  A positive family is a good support system.  I survived because of the continuous love I received from my family.  I didn't truly deal with what happen and learn to release the pain until I was a young adult.  The experience may cause me to be over protective of my family and myself.  I also learned I can only do what I can to protect them but with the help of prayer.



A Praying Family
 
 
 
Canada's Children
Abuse is reported all over the world.  Many families experience abuse/violence regardless of their ethnicity.  Report has shown more children decease from violence either accidental or deliberate.   I read upon the abuse of children in Canada.  Study has shown the impact of abuse is higher with girls than boys in Canada.  Maltreatment was found in preschools but more violence occurred in the homes.  Children that experience violence in their homes are more likely to display emotional disorders and hyperactivity.  Canada created a program that provide mental health assistance to everyone including children.  There is another program developed to help children deal with stress.  After dealing with stress in the home there are techniques provided to help children overcome fears, self-esteem, family break up, and it teaches them how to protect themselves.  It teaches parents and early childhood providers that children have stress.  Children learn how to deal with stress that may effect them physically, emotionally, and effect their mental health.  The psychology foundation of stress seems to be a caring program for kids and their families. The program teaches children how to interact with others, concentrate and learn.  I support anything that will help children learn how to deal with life challenges and help them face it with their heads held high, and not be afraid to try new things that will help them develop mentally and socially.   
 
Berger, K.  (2012).  The developing person through childhood (6th ed.).  New York, NY:  Worth Publishers. 
 
Canadian mental health association.  (2013).
 
Child abuse prevention website. (2008). http://www.safekidsbc.ca/statistics.htm
 
Psychology foundation of Canada. (2012).  Kids have stress too!
 
 

3 comments:

  1. I am so sorry to hear that other children physically abused you as a child. I know that this had to be a very difficult time in your life. I am glad that God seen you thru this. I am also glad that you have a great support system. I Know that you are a great parent and you are doing great protecting your child from things like this.

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  2. Thank you for sharing your story. I can identify with your statement about being overprotective of your children. I worked for Family and Protective Services for 3 years before having my children and I am very careful about who I allow my children to be around and stay with because of all of the abuse reports that I took before having them. I know that not all people are bad but knowing what could happen to them makes it hard for me to let them go. I make sure I talk to them about what is inappropriate and what people should NOT be doing to them and to let them know to let me know immediately even if someone threatens to harm them or their family as a result.

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  3. Yolanda,
    I am also sorry to hear about your abuse and thank you for your bravery in sharing it. I found the information on abuse in Canada interesting. I am glad that Canada has been proactive in trying to find solutions for this problem. I hope they are effective programs. It's so strange how we can be neighbors with a country and be both so similar and different.
    Thanks,
    Danielle

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